Hello Mike,
I’m not convinced that because your driving style is smoother this will increase tyre wear based on the current setup. This appears more like wheel alignment is out, I’m not aware of any specific settings. I would suggest you speak to the dealer and ask them to check the the preferred factory settings if these are documented when doing the geometry.
Generally if you have equal wear across across then this would indicate your are driving gently otherwise you’d have more wear say on the insides if your putting your foot down 🙂
Happy Easter
Tony